The spoken word can be foreplay, intimate and hot. If you don't ask, however, you are sure not to get it. How else can we know how to thrill each other? Couples don't ask for what they want because they're afraid they won't get it. People should not have sex without talking about it - lovingly, salaciously, practically, fearlessly - and often. It's not just porn that sets unrealistic expectations for what's sexy anymore, and it can be hard to feel like you measure up when it comes time to get naked IRL.īut if you want to keep sex fresh in a long-term relationship or you want to feel more confident in the bedroom, there are plenty of things you can do without going OTT.
Sex is everywhere - if we're not watching actual sex scenes on TV or in the movies, we're watching celebrities parade down red carpets practically naked.
